ALERT: Talk contains graphic sexual language
At TED2009, audience member Cindy Gallop gave a 4-minute presentation that became one of the event’s most talked about. Speaking from her personal experience, she argued that hardcore pornography had distorted the way a generation of young men think about sex, and talked about how she was fighting back with the launch of a website to correct the myths being propagated. Later, she expanded her brief presentation into a provocative and thought-provoking TED Book.
Her talk’s graphic content means we can’t include it in the main run of full TEDTalks, which go by default to subscribers, including children. But we do think it’s worth posting here. Cindy is no prude, and not everyone will enjoy the graphic language on her website, MakeLoveNotPorn.com. But she has courageously (and wittily) raised an important issue, which we think deserves wider attention. Constructive comments welcome!
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Ruby Ryder commented on Mar 31 2012
@John W – Is pornography “safe”? Anything can be done to excess. People are compulsive over-eaters but we don’t say food in not safe. Violent movies sometimes inspire people to do violent things but we don’t ban violent movies. So “safe” is rather subjective. Can it change people’s attitudes towards sex and especially shape young people’s idea of what sex is about? I think that’s the point Ms. Gallop is trying to make. No studies done so far – despite the claims of Santorum.
@ Michael Savage – Go to YouTube and search for her name and you will find the video uncensored.
Control free censors, indeed.
Michael Savage commented on Mar 31 2012
I did not block my ears but still I could not hear the entire talk. I’m surprised TED decided I must have my ears blocked when obviously most of the audience did not block their ears.
Why was this done and does anyone know where one might get the entire talk free from control-freak censors.
John W commented on Mar 29 2012
Dear Cindy and fellow readers, has anyone looked at the impact free distribution of pornography has on the community we share? In other words, people often say pornography is wonderful thing between consenting adults and in the privacy of their own home. What if pornography affects the viewer the causes them to behave differently than those not watching pornography outside of their own home? I mean, is this stuff safe? If you say it’s safe, how can you be certain? How many studies show pornography has no impact on the viewer? Or how about the opposite, are there studies that show how it affects one’s behaviour (and attitudes toward women, which Cindy admits in this video)? Constructive comments are encouraged.
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Ruby Ryder commented on Mar 9 2012
Oh my – TED – what have you done?! This beeping thing is new and certainly you realize that you have rendered the content useless?!! :-(
Just go to you tube and search for her name, everyone.
Sam Kitt commented on Mar 9 2012
I have to say I was stopped from listening to Ms. Gallop by the bleeping of her words presumably by the TED website. Are you kidding? You put this forthright woman on your site speaking of sex acts (porn vs. reality) and then censor her? Her ideas are good in general but our tender ears can not be subjected to the specifics? That is the most absurd, anti-reality, anti-knowledge decision I can imagine. What is TED thinking?
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