I am not seeing the guys. I just see it but i want to download it.

This is a very real and relevant issue. “Guys” are struggling due to a lack of leadership. Parents, particularly fathers, are abdicating their responsibility and boys are raising themselves in a world based on the principles of immediate gratification and the path of least resistance. Then answer to this problem is for parents to reclaim the responsibilities that they have so easily given to others. Specifically, fathers need to care for their boys through intentional mentoring and raising them to be leaders and men of honor. Video games need to be replaced with a focus on service above self. When the focus becomes creating men instead of enabling boys the world will be a better place.

I understand what he is saying but I don’t think it’s a problem. I like video games and porn, so what?

Growing up, I can safely say that men don’t care about starting a family. Therefore the drive to do well in school, and be starting their career at 22 or 23, is just isn’t there. Why don’t they want to start a family? It’s expensive, and there is a very high chance of it failing where he will be on the hook for child support, and only get to see his kids 2 days out of every 14. Even if he finds the one, women, in general, still have traditional expectations of men, AND expect them to help out around the house more. Lastly, it’s this generation of men who saw the rise of dual working parent and single parent households and didn’t like what they saw so they aren’t in any hurry. On the other hand, women have that biological clock so they cannot wait… Times have changed, but it’s changing a way that isn’t good for women who want kids at a younger age… and quite frankly that’s good for society.